I sometimes get in these downward spirals where I just want to go back to bed and pull the covers over my head until it all goes away. Well it only goes away because I make it go away.
Now I know that organizing your life is more complex than these 5 little steps, but they will get you back on track and help keep you there, even if your life isn't out of control.
2. Schedule your chores. This works great for me as my chores are scheduled around work and other set appointments in my week. Tuesday is laundry and cleaning day, Thursday is grocery, errands, car gas. I water the plants and take special care of the pets on Sunday. There is such freedom in having a schedule for weekly chores. I don't have to think about laundry or housework until its Tuesday. Groceries are purchased on a routine basis so meals are planned, lists are made and the shopping done. After awhile your week will have a rhythm and the chores just flow and almost do themselves.
4. Unclutter - both your possessions and your commitments. I went through a major downsizing a few years back. After the shock subsided I found my new streamlined home and possessions were freeing. I had less stuff, less to take care of, less to worry about, less to clean. My closets were substantially reduced. My clothing decreased to that which fit and I actually wore. Did you know you probably only wear 20% of the clothes in your closet? (More details on how to declutter to come.)
Is your schedule filled to the brim with activities, committees, commitments, etc? See what you can drop. Give yourself a limit of either time (hours) or number of activities you and your family will participate in. You don't have to do everything. Make time to be with your family and just be. Time with your family is precious and fleeting.
OK, time for the disclaimer. When my life is going along smoothly I'm actually following these 5 steps. When I get off kilter it's usually because I've dropped the ball on one of my steps along the way. I have to pick it back up and then things start to even themselves out. These are things that work for me and I find invaluable. Your mileage might vary. But give one or two a try if you aren't already doing them. See what happens!